The peer groups in the colleges have a specific way of breaking out. Education when used as a spoke in the name of economic development leads to various multi-leveled conundrum affecting all the lives associated with the wheel. The peer groups are influenced by innumerable factors as their biological and physiological health allows them to both influence and be influenced deeply. In the process of developing a personality, they cultivate a fake attitude imitating the coolest set of behavioral tracts that they view. Along with the environment and the external factors, the internal stimulus is bent towards a hive of vices. Individual choices are sacrificed or honored according to whimsical moods and fanciful dreams. Ignoring all the responsibilities and duties that they are entitled to, young adults are excluded when called out for children and step back when called as adults. A very sensitive spectrum of emotions are experienced when they are both pulled and pushed allowing them to hold ground and flow at the same speed.
At this juncture, many individuals lose their identity and follow the trends thus diving into the templates and formats that are already being used by a huge number of other individuals. They also pick up social habits, compulsive thinking, hateful aggression and a generic sense of disconnection from their friends and family. It is important to identify and repeal the negative perspective that engulfs most of our thought patterns thus disabling the wholesome personality. Now, that the personality is divided into multiple masks. As a growing child learns from what he/she sees, the young adults are provided with more than a few choices, of breaking existing barriers. However, most of them fail to recognize the barriers that need to be mended and instead try to remove them. They delve into a denial, rejecting all the advice given to them at earshot. They start and create a sense of illusion around the suffering, defeat, injury and every little imperfection around them. The stream of disassociation from the reality and non-acceptance of existence will be used as an excuse for all failures and carefree efforts. They all crystallize into a behavioral trait later on hindering the very progress and questioning the existence of that individual. This is falsity in speech and attitude.
Why do teenagers fall trap to this?
Among a myriad of reasons, individuals who have health, liberty, education and a certain amount of intelligence slip away into the illusion of worldly affairs by inculcating a deep rooted negative perception about the reality. For some, this is a step-by-step process, from which they can break away and seek for actuality by action-level efforts. However, repetitive mistakes, compulsive habits, causing friction within and around them are the reasons why people develop harmful behavioral traits.
How do they end up at the turn-stone of realization?
Realization too happens step-by-step for some individuals thus alerting the others around them. In the current day situation, each individual is disconnected from the other sentient beings around him/her as they are lost in the illusion of their own. This turn-stone helps those who hold on to it and climb upwards the mountain of life perspiring for their faults and enjoy the journey. For those who fail to hold onto the turn-stone, there is a heap of options to choose from. The objective is to create a sense of oneness replacing hate, anger, greed, jealousy and pride.